• Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 year ago

    This makes sense to me. It’s okay for superficial features to be an initial factor of attraction, but as soon as it becomes the focal driving force despite the finer qualities of the individual, it’s problematic. Well, unless the person of focus is okay with and into that dynamic, I suppose.

    Regardless, it makes sense to me.