• Hazdaz@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    We just don’t learn, do we?

    Stop putting celebrities on a pedestal.

    This bullshit celebrity hero worship has to stop. Fran was funny (and quite fetching) on The Nanny. What she is doing during the strike is great and all, but she is also anti-vaxx.

    This is the problem that happens when our society puts these celebrities on a higher level than everyone else. Appreciate the work they have done on and off screen, but realize that they are just human and in the case of Fran, she is a little loopy when it comes to vaccine issues. She’s not someone we should look up to. None of these celebrities are. Look up to your dad or a fireman or that really good social studies teacher you had in 6th grade.

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      Stop expecting perfection.

      Nobody is perfect. MLK had affairs, the founding fathers owned slaves, Churchill was racist AF, etc.

      She’s doing a great job now and we can educate her the same way we turned Obama from anti-gay marriage.

      We should judge people OVERALL not on stuff like being anti-vax (which to be clear is dumb).

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        I don’t expect perfection…? Being anti-vax is a big deal to me. That’s not a harmless ideology. It’s moronic and anti-science. This isn’t just some little thing I disagree with it’s, in my opinion, a huge moral and intellectual failure. I think it’s completely fair that this gets brought up because it’s directly relevant.

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            I wish we lived in a world where we could count on people to just do the right thing but we don’t. On issues that put everyone at risk I unfortunately have to stand on the side of mandates until people learn how to act. Personally I’d still rather that they just get naturally excluded from society but we’re all too split for that and too many people have to needlessly die in the meantime. I’m aware fighting for women’s rights to choose is kind of hypocritical in this situation but nobody has come up with a better solution that doesn’t just let people be wilfully ignorant and get other people killed in the process.

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        No!

        If even ONE thought in her head disagrees with MY world view then she is useless and NEEDS to be destroyed!

        /s

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        Stop expecting perfection.

        That is a great way of saying it.

        If you look at some of the biggest figures of our past in world history, the vast majority of them had some kind of vice or did some kind of thing or participated in some kind of event that would have gotten them cancelled in today’s world. It is ridiculous to what standards we hold people today, but in the end, they are just that - PEOPLE. Highly flawed individuals, just like you and I and everyone here. That doesn’t change the fact that they changed history (for better or worse) in one way or another. The problem comes when society then elevates them to some demi-god level and then everyone gets all flustered when that extra-marital affair or off-color joke or comments about some topic comes to light.

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          Talking about someone’s glaring flaws isn’t the same as expecting perfection. That’s an intillectually lazy way to see it. Wanting people to only sing the praises of anyone is actually expecting your version of perfection.

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              If it’s relevant to the person being discussed it’s fair game imo. Just like it’s fair game to point out her better actions if it’s in a post dunking on her. Famous people are gonna be scrutinized more than the guy working at the gas station that’s just how it goes. I don’t expect perfection but what alternative do you even want here? I’m not down with ignoring bad behavior then because we want their help now. That’ll never sit right with me. If someone is in a position to be emulated by fans and they make the decision to spread dangerous ideology then fuck em. I’m gonna bring it up at every whisper of their name. It’s the closest thing to actual consequences for their actions that most rich/famous people ever get anyway.

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                Why does it matter if it’s relevant to the person, if it’s not relevant to the subject or current event in question?

                To answer your question, the alternative I want here is better working conditions for actors. I view her as working class, not rich. The difference between a millionaire and a billionaire is about a billion dollars.

                The guys her union is up against actually are rich, and they’re even worse. The working class is being divided and conquered.

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                  To each their own. I’m not willing to give any slack on people that are anti-vax even if I perceive them as being helpful to me at the time.

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      Yeah. Put me on a pedestal instead. I’ve got some nice ideas. Like what if we made a car with a square steering wheel? I mean we won’t know the downsides until we try.

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      Everyone is a little loopy though. We’re all some flavor of hypocrite too.

      I don’t mind celebrities being on a pedestal, because it is a common reference point for us all when discussing virtue or lack thereof.

      We just all need to be reminded that they are still human and stupid in their own way.

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      God if there was one message I could forcefully implant into society as a whole it’s this. Well said.

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        Don’t put anyone on a pedestal. Not politicians, not celebrities’, not twitch streamers, not your girlfriend. You can love, respect and even like people, but don’t worship anyone, it leaves you blind to their faults and it’s a pain in the ass being the one on the pedestal in a relationship.

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          You can pass people’s messages around, and the messages that are not about them but that their presence and actions help spread, without putting them on a pedestal.

          Try it for once. It’s fun.

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    The Nanny being the one to lead the charge vs Skynet is the exact shit I expect from this current clown timeline.

    And I’m fine with it. Fran Drescher is awesome.

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    Bobbi Flekman confronted the sexism in the Spinal Tap album “Smell the Glove” back when she worked artist relations for Polymer Records in 1982. She has known for years that “Money talks, and bullshit walks”

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    Off topic but she sounded hoarse AF. I dunno if it’s from recent screaming or a pack-a-day habit but it caught me off guard.