I read parts of it and basically

Having lots of single dates or low numbers of dates per partner many times that end in sex and don’t continue into anything will make you burned out on dating. He dubs this used condom syndrome, imo it’s too on the nose.

He rambles on a lot more about dating and different categories of daters.

Dudes not wrong about the core idea but his writing needs some serious work and it’s a lot of pseudoscience and sterotyping.

Lmao getting ahead of all the annoying pedants I see

I think I may understand a bit. For me, masturbation was really just a quick dopamine hit as a coping mechanism for ADHD. It was never really satisfying, like I’d have a quick jerk and then go about my day as usual. I haven’t physically transitioned, but I discovered anal toys and they kind of blew my mind. It felt so much more right to me, instead of having a bit of pleasure that was fast to come and fast to go, this was… More intense, more lasting. I still haven’t cum from anal alone, but honestly it’s better than cumming to me. I still cum to finish a session, but it’s the desert after the meal. After a good session, the high lasts for a while, and I just snuggle with stuffed animals on the couch and watch a comfy show. It’s an event, rather than a fleeting moment.

Feel free to ask anything, I’m an oversharer by nature nowadays, I won’t be embarrassed. I can also help with getting into butt toying if that’s something anyone reading wants help with. Getting started on my own was a bit rough so I’m always looking to save someone the time and effort of figuring stuff out.

I don’t think it’s making devs worse, however I do think it’s significantly lowering the bar to entry to the point where people who don’t have enough knowledge to actually do the job well are becoming proceedingly common. Theoretically they should get weeded out by a good interview process but corporate be corporate

Not that my opinion is worth anything, it’s not like I have anything to back it up.

Please disregard any takes I may have

The meme is literally about you lol

I’m so jealous of your style! You look kickass

I gave up all hope that it’s going to turn out all right, and more or less stopped caring

Yeah! It super stressful for me to go to the store and get women’s patterns and cute fabric tbh, but it was good practice and I’m glad I did it

Mooooooooood. You do have great style

Let’s not pretend link opens chest is a saint here either. Not surprising they’re part of all the drama getting stirred up.

Lmao, they’re like the first person I blocked. Good riddance

Oh my god, incredible

Fucking me, exactly, so much. And it’s so hard to get others to really understand too

There was a time when my depression was at its worst when I was so afraid to go to sleep because I couldn’t stop dreaming good things and it was unbearable to come back to reality, which sucked because I also wanted to spend as little time concious as possible. Kind of incredible I never tried anything I think

Not what you’re asking for, but it’s the same core principle as irony poisoning, I think. And, I know that shit is real, because it’s happened to me. It was kind of a core life lesson to me to watch what I consume.

Isn’t what we call a marathon just the last short leg of his journey, and he ran like 100-150 miles?

I mean, on the bright side, only two more years until I can kill myself!

That was a crossover promotion with archer, a show about essentially a giant dickwad james bond, voiced by the same guy who voices bob

I’m so envious, you’re goals

Transfem who hasn’t really done anything transition wise yet here. After a couple months of anal with (good) toys just fucking myself was consistently better than cumming. Legs trembling, uncontrollable clenching and moaning, being a leaky shivering trembling mess. Cumming just kills the horny and stops the party. If I have the self control to not jerk off and cum while fucking myself I can be on that state like indefinitely and it’s awesome, such an endorphin rush, way better than jerking off and cumming ever was.