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Who tf considers their teeth clean in 60 seconds?

Edit: “Less time than it takes to brush your teeth…” I should have some coffee.

My first thought while reading this post was “emoji analysis”

Maybe sudo apt upgrade package-name

I hardly ever have to upgrade just one package. Otherwise, you’ll need an updated .deb package and use dpkg

Can I self-host selfh.st?

If you don’t hold the keys, your data may as well not be encrypted.

They should have a rocks glass with a query on it

SELECT * FROM liquor_cabinet WHERE proof >= 120

What you’ve said in your second paragraph resonates so much with me and has helped reaffirm that I’m on the right path. Thank you.

I suppose this question is basically, “what are my goals?” I consider myself fairly feminine in mind, but I lament how unfeminine I am in body. In mind, I am emotional and empathic. I deeply care about other people and their feelings and I feel a lot, but I find myself unable to express it without inebriants.

What’s feminine to me is the ability to be emotionally available, freely expressive, caring, and nurturing. I don’t want to be tough and stoic. I don’t want to be strong and unwavering. I want to be flowing and expressive. I don’t want to uphold masculine expectations because emotionally, I feel trapped inside my own head. The main issue is that I don’t yet hold the keys to the cell. I wear a mask whether I want to or not and I live inside my own head.

As for expression, I want to be small, graceful, and delicate. I want my body to flow in movement and shape just as I want my emotions and mannerisms to flow from within me. I want my wardrobe to be complex and for my outfits to match my internal state. My current wardrobe is so boring: it’s just the same cuts of shirts and pants and I’ll only ever find more of the same off the rack at the department store. It should be vibrant and varied. Without going into detail, there are a few pain points on my body that need to be addressed. I guess it’s a roundabout way to say that I want the outside to match the inside.

I also want to be allowed to feel vulnerable and for that to be acceptable. I’m not good at being a man because… I’m not. And I shouldn’t be expected to be if I don’t want to. Nobody would expect me to be a carpenter just because I own a hammer, so why should this be different? I hope that answers your question. My neurospicy brain likes to tangent and ramble a bit.

Nah, ditch the mouse. Give them a machine with Arch, BSPWM, and Vim.

So true. If you’re going to live in your body, you should make it feel like you and it should feel like you own it.

I had a similar realization. I found a moment of clarity and realized that I have the power to change my fate and I am the one who controls me. I should pursue happiness for myself and nobody else. If it’s a problem for anyone else, they’ve made it their problem, not me. I get to be selfish about this and so do you. Go get it, friend. You’re walking this path with millions of your own cousins.

Says the water addict. Oh, look at me! I can’t go three days without water!

They’ve still got a long way to go

I think this is good. Adobe doesn’t need to get bigger, it needs to let go of some of its parts.

Also figma balls

Imagine not using a language with setters and getter built in lol

Sure, we can just assume it’s ASCII, but it seems a bit disingenuous to not tell us what encoding to use and to just let those who don’t know better continue to think that binary is sone kind of language.

Okay, but what’s a theoren?

I’ve heard that this can be harmful because it would give you unrealistic expectations. An AI image model would grossly exaggerate feminine features in this case, more so than would become apparent on gender affirming treatment. Male to female camera filters are the same way. I would steer clear of this train of thought, personally.

It’s not Chrome or Chromium derived. Google has incentives to mine me for data. Mozilla, not so much. I don’t trust Mozilla completely, but I certainly trust them more than Google to have my best interest at heart.