FairycorePhoebe@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•(Ladies of Kbin/Lemmy/etc!) Does a woman generally have as strong of an urge to get an orgasm compared to a man's urge to get ejaculation?
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7 months agoThis really entirely depends on the woman. I’m a lesbian and I love to orgasm and don’t feel satisfied until I do. My girlfriend is the opposite and is more there for the journey. She is indifferent to achieving an orgasm and can be satisfied without one.
I’ve been on hrt for 2.5 years with good levels and I’ve never experienced the fabled girl orgasm. It definitely feels different from how it used too, but I still have the same refractory period, and the feeling is typically still pretty focused on my genitals. It might be slightly more extended through my body and last a little longer, but they also feel less intense than before. Feels more like a sidegrade than an upgrade to be honest.