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Cake day: October 2nd, 2023

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  • I see this post is almost a week old now, so hope things have gone well if you’ve had the conversation.

    Ideally you want to front foot this so you can control how and when she finds out. My wife found out when she saw the notifications from my reddit account. Shit hit the fan. It’s settled down now, but almost 2 years on she still has trust issues. I’m out to close friends (as to what I am, I’m not sure yet) but sill present male virtually all the time.

    Also it’s the people we care the most about that are the hardest to tell. I feel guilty telling friends cause I feel like I’ve wasted the time they’ve invested in the previous me and they may not want to be friends with the new me.

    You aren’t alone 🙂