• scarabic@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I wouldn’t count on porn as a reliable way to explore and understand your sexuality. I still don’t find much appeal in gay porn but I came out as bi when I finally experienced having an older and more sophisticated man pursue me. Sexual dynamics were always the other way around with girls growing up and to flip that was a revelation for me. Far more emotional and situational than anything you could capture on video.